Short explanation

As I’m writing this blog story, I’m finding it hard to decide how much detail to go into because I went through a lot of mental gymnastics for a long time.  So, in the interest of not boring everyone to death, I’ll not necessarily give this in the time frames in which it happened.  It’s going to be more from each aspect where I started and what happened with it.  Otherwise, this is going to get really, really loooonnggg!!!!